Kay Wills Wyma has written the perfect book to help those of us who suffer from the pressure of trying to keep up with (or out-do) those around us. I'm Happy for You (Sort Of...Not Really) shares how Kay and her family have learned to escape the comparison trap.
About the Book
Our cultural obsession with comparison is undercutting relationships and sapping contentment. With disarming candor and humor, Kay Wills Wyma explores how to trade comparison for compassion and rediscover what life is all about.
It’s easy to get caught in the comparison games we play with our appearances, our kids, and our homes. Kay reminds exhausted families about tried and true remedies from the pressures of competitive living.
In her warm, relatable style, Kay confronts the comparison epidemic raging in our homes, our neighborhoods, and our social-media feeds, offering remedies along the way.
With candor and humor, I’m Happy For You (Sort Of…Not Really) explores the troubling effects of living in an excessively competitive culture—and reveals simple yet effective ways to escape the comparison trap.
About the Author
Kay Wills Wyma is a blogger, mother of five, and the author of Cleaning House through which she has appeared on The TODAY Show, CNN, Glenn Beck, The New York Times, Focus on the Family, and more. Before becoming a stay-at-home mom, she held positions at the White House, the Staubach Company, and Bank of America. Kay lives in the Dallas area with her husband, Jon, and their family.
What a perfect time to read this book! With Christmas rapidly approaching, I find myself looking at others to see what they have, what their kids have, what I DON'T have, etc. (And by the way, how is it almost December already?)
While I don't want to admit that I play the comparison game, the truth is that I am often guilty of judging myself against others, of being jealous when others have good things happen to them instead of simply being happy for them. (Ouch, it hurt to admit that!)
I really enjoyed reading I'm Happy for You (Sort Of...Not Really). Well, after my toes recovered from being stepped on as I read the first few chapters and saw myself, that is. The practical ideas throughout the book for how to change my comparison mentality totally made up for my sore toes. LOL
One of the best reminders in the book for me was on p.40. "It's hard to be grateful for, or to, anyone with my eyes on myself." So much truth in that one little sentence! When I take my eyes off of me and how I measure up to others, I can truly be grateful for what I have - the people in my life, the material blessings I have, my health, etc.
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